My Family

My Stick Family from WiddlyTinks.com

this is my stick family, maybe I will tell you a little bit about the family where I was born.
My dad is a Teacher, He has been teaching English for the children and adult since He graduated from the college. My dad whom I call Papa is a nice man, He is so patience, caring and "Modern" ( maybe because He works with the foreigner) I like to go shopping with him because its easier for me to grab my favorite things rather than go with my mom..hehe..anyway My dad loves study and education. From Him I knew education and English earlier, which is being my field now.He also encourages us to keep study no matter how old are we now

My Mom whom I call Mama is my Mom and best friend. We are so close each other. We laugh, we cry and we fight every time and it make my dad likes to say " Hey you are only two but hard to be joined. I think the cause for being "debates often" because we are having the same personality. But after all, we are a good mates. My mom likes to call me almost everyday and I like to share everything with her, as my best friend. She is my good adviser too where She was the one whom really believed that I will marry my hubby now even tough we were separated and had no more relationship at that time. We like to go shopping together, bake a cake, eat chocolates, candy and snack just two of us, or just sharing hundreds stories thru phone. O ya She is a good cook and my hubby always tell me to learn more from her, because He loves her own made "Padang Food"

My Oldest Brother is Jeffrey. I call her "Abang". He is an accountant and now are having duty in a remote area at Maluku. He loves traveling and hiking and that was also the reason for him to move to that village. He is a kind of "Discipline and stick to the rule person". He is a good example for me and my second brother. He is also a nice son whom never made any mistakes since he was a kid ( different with two of us who always make our parents angry to us) He also has a good leadership when he was in college where some lecturers admire it ( soo significant with me..) He is really a good figures as as son and brothers.

My second brother is Fajar. Actually he was born twins but only him who can survive. Different with my first brother, He is the person who doesn't like something monotonous. That is why he feels better in "art" rather than other fields. He got his "Disain komunikasi Visual" Degree at the college and now working at a creative house in Bintaro. He is a brother and a friend for me because we are so close. Just like a friend, we like to share everything and I feel more free sharing with him rather than with my first brother because he is more " democratic" so i still can do the " naughty " things as long as it is till tolerable. I am so lucky to have this kind of brother where some of my friend have a gap with their brother.

The only daughter in my family is me. As the youngest, I am being a selfish, spoiled-up and childish person. At first I am not use to share my things with others and it make me hard to stay in a dormitory. I also a shy person who doesn't like to meet a new person actually ( but I don't know why people say the opposite) I am a complicated person, who makes the simple things become more complicated. Queen of Drama who has a "fragile" heart and some of my friends say I am a Good Adviser. I can give a wise and good advice where I my self find hard to implement them in my life.

We are a "Cross Cultural" family where my Dad was born in Nias Island, My Mom was born in Padang, West Sumatra where all of the children were born and raised in Pekanbaru Riau. So never ask us about Nias Culture or Padang Culture because we only know a little bit of our ancient blood.

and now, this is my new little family stick


My Stick Family from WiddlyTinks.com

As a newly-weds, we are not yet having any baby or even a pets. My hubby loves doggy so much but this time because we are staying in a flat, we can't rise any doggy. We also ever had a plan to have an aquarium with the little small fish inside but I am still unlike ths fishy things.

My husband is a calm and quite person, the opposite of me. He likes reading, watching and studying a lot besides traveling, hiking and playing piano. He is not kind of a romantic person, but he is willing to do any things to make me happy. He is caring and understanding person. There are so many good side that I should learn from him. One of them is his Patience where he always face my " bad side" patiently.

Anyway we live in a small flat in west Jakarta, near his office. My husband is a Bataknese and at home we use multilingual such us : Bahasa Indonesia, English, Batak, Melayu Riau ( where we spent the childhood time together) Minang ( because in Pekanbaru people speak Minang Languange often) and little bit Nias Language for other maybe it looks weird but for us its really fun!